Welcome to TressNails.com! I’m Ella Kohn, your guide in the world of beauty. Today, we’re diving into something truly special: finding the perfect look for the mother of the groom. This is a huge day, and you deserve to feel absolutely radiant. Seeing someone you love walk down the aisle is an incredible feeling, and knowing you look and feel your best adds to that joy. I remember watching my own cousin’s wedding, and his mom just glowed! Her smile was so big, and her hair was styled in a way that just made her feel so confident. It wasn’t just about the hair, it was about how it made her feel inside.
Choosing the right hairstyle can feel like a big decision, but I’m here to help make it easy and fun. We’ll explore a range of mother of the groom hairstyles, from elegant updos and chic bobs to soft, romantic waves. My passion is helping women discover styles that make them shine, and this collection of ideas is all about helping you find that perfect look for such a memorable occasion. Let’s find a style that makes you feel beautiful and confident as you celebrate this wonderful milestone.
Your Elegant Options for Mother of the Groom Hairstyles
Now that we’re in the wedding spirit, let’s explore some beautiful hairstyle options. These looks are perfect for the mother of the groom, designed to make you feel confident and gorgeous. Our first style is a personal favorite for its timeless appeal.
19. Soft Waves with a Side Part

Soft waves are a go-to for a reason. They bring such a romantic and gentle feel to your look. This style works wonderfully on almost any hair length, from a chic lob to long flowing locks. A side part adds a touch of elegance and can beautifully frame your face. It’s a fantastic choice if the wedding has a romantic or slightly more relaxed vibe. To get those lovely, soft waves, I often reach for a large barrel curling iron or even some big rollers. It gives that effortless bounce.
18. Low Bun with Face-Framing Pieces

A low bun is the picture of sophistication. It’s polished and chic, making it ideal for a formal wedding. What I love most is adding delicate face-framing pieces. They soften the look and can really highlight your features. This style pairs beautifully with a formal gown, especially if it has intricate details around the neckline. To keep everything neat, I always use plenty of bobby pins and a light-hold hairspray so it feels secure but not stiff.
17. Half-Up, Half-Down with Braids

This style offers the best of both worlds! You get the elegance of having some hair swept away from your face, while still having the softness of loose hair. Adding a braid or two woven into the half-up section brings in lovely detail and a touch of charm. It’s super versatile and works for both daytime and evening celebrations. Think about the wedding’s style when picking your braid – a delicate twist for romance, or a slightly thicker braid for a more rustic feel.
16. Sleek and Straight with a Center Part

For a modern and effortlessly chic look, you can’t go wrong with sleek, straight hair. A sharp center part creates clean lines and can actually help elongate the face. This style is fantastic if your dress is minimalist or has a contemporary design. My tip for achieving that perfectly smooth finish is to use a good straightening iron and then follow up with a smoothing serum to tame any flyaways and add shine.
15. Voluminous Blowout

Who doesn’t love the feeling of a professional blowout? It adds incredible body, bounce, and that touch of glamour. A voluminous blowout is fantastic for bringing movement and life to your hair, and it works well for various lengths. It’s a simple yet impactful way to feel polished and ready for photos. I always recommend using a big round brush and some volumizing products at the roots for maximum lift.
14. French Twist

The French twist is a truly timeless updo. It speaks of classic elegance and is a sophisticated choice for any formal event. I think it looks particularly stunning with dresses that have a high neckline, as it really showcases the line of your neck and shoulders. For a bit of height and hold, I like to backcomb the roots slightly before starting the twist. It gives a little extra oomph.
13. Side Swept Curls

Sweeping your curls to one side creates such a romantic and glamorous effect. It’s a simple trick that adds asymmetry and drama. This style is absolutely perfect if you plan on wearing statement earrings, as it puts them on full display. To make sure those beautiful curls stay put all day and night, a strong-hold hairspray is your best friend.
12. Messy Updo with Tendrils

Sometimes, a look that feels a little undone is the most chic! A messy updo with soft tendrils framing your face has an effortless beauty about it. The loose pieces add softness and keep the style from feeling too stiff. This is a lovely option for weddings with a bohemian or more relaxed vibe. Using a texturizing spray before you start can help give it that perfectly imperfect feel.
11. Bob with Soft Curls

If you have a bob, adding soft curls can completely transform the look. It brings in playfulness and elegance at the same time. Curling a bob adds lovely volume and texture, giving shorter hair great shape. It’s a really versatile style that can work for different wedding settings. You can use a smaller curling wand for tighter curls or a larger one for looser, more relaxed waves depending on the look you want.
10. Braided Crown

A braided crown is so enchanting and romantic! It literally looks like you’re wearing a delicate crown made of your own hair. This style is especially beautiful for outdoor or rustic-themed weddings. To make sure your braided crown stays secure and looks seamless, use bobby pins that blend in with your hair color. It’s like a little secret weapon for keeping it perfect.
9. High Bun

A high bun is all about creating a clean, polished, and elegant silhouette. It instantly makes your neck look longer and adds a sophisticated lift. I think this style looks amazing with dresses that have a beautiful back detail or are backless, as it keeps the focus there. For a really full and neat bun, using a hair donut is a fantastic trick I often recommend.
8. Ponytail with Waves

Yes, a ponytail can be wedding-ready! Styling it with waves elevates it from everyday to elegant. You can choose a higher ponytail for a more formal feel or a lower one for something a bit more relaxed. It’s a practical choice that still looks incredibly stylish. A simple trick to make it look extra polished is to wrap a small section of hair around the base to hide the elastic band.
7. Inverted Bob

The inverted bob is such a stylish and modern haircut. It’s shorter in the back and gradually gets longer towards the front, creating a really chic angle. This cut is particularly great for adding a bit of volume and shape to fine to medium hair. To really show off those angles and keep the lines crisp, using a flat iron to smooth and perfect the ends is key.
6. Chignon

The chignon is the epitome of classic, low-slung elegance. This French-inspired bun is timeless and sophisticated, making it a perfect match for very formal weddings. Achieving that super smooth, polished finish is all about using a fine-tooth comb to gather the hair and then setting it with a good hairspray. It’s a look that never goes out of style.
5. Pixie Cut Styled with Texture

Even with a shorter pixie cut, you have so many styling options for a special occasion! You can add texture and volume to create a really dynamic look. Using different styling products like pomade or wax lets you define layers and create various shapes. A well-styled pixie is a confident and modern choice that truly shines.
4. Half-Up with a Twist

This is a wonderfully simple yet elegant style. Instead of a braid, you twist sections of hair back and secure them. It adds visual interest without the commitment of a full updo. It’s a great option if you want to keep most of your length down while still having your hair neatly styled away from your face. Decorative pins can add a lovely touch to secure the twists.
3. Layered Cut with Bouncy Curls

If you have layers in your hair, they are just made for bouncy curls! Layers help add movement and shape, making the curls look even more lively and full. This style brings incredible volume and dimension. It’s such a joyful and energetic look that’s perfect for celebrating. When I want really bouncy curls, I often use a diffuser attachment on my blow dryer.
2. Wavy Lob (Long Bob)

The lob, or long bob, is incredibly popular, and for good reason! Styling it with waves gives it a relaxed yet perfectly put-together feel. This length is super flattering on many face shapes. It’s a versatile option that works beautifully for various wedding settings, from a garden party to a more formal venue. Using a large barrel curling iron or even a waving iron gives those effortless, beachy waves.
1. Classic Updo

When it comes to mother of the groom hairstyles, a classic updo is often the top choice, and for good reason. It’s the definition of elegance and sophistication, and you know it will stay perfectly in place throughout the entire celebration. You can tailor a classic updo with different levels of height and volume to suit your preference. It’s also a perfect canvas for adding beautiful hair accessories. I always recommend booking a consultation with a stylist beforehand to make sure your updo complements your dress and face shape perfectly. I remember helping my best friend’s mom choose a classic updo for her son’s wedding, and she just felt so incredibly special and beautiful all day. It really made a difference.
Frequently Asked Questions About Mother of the Groom Hairstyles
It’s natural to have questions when planning your look for such a big day! Here are some common things people ask about mother of the groom hairstyles.
What are the most popular hairstyles for the mother of the groom?
Classic updos are always a favorite for their elegance and staying power. Chic bobs, especially styled with waves or texture, are very popular for a modern feel. Soft waves are also a top choice because they are versatile and flattering.
Should the mother of the groom’s hairstyle match the wedding theme?
While it doesn’t need to be an exact match, it’s a good idea to consider the wedding’s overall formality and style. A very formal wedding might call for a polished updo, while a more relaxed theme could suit soft waves or a braided style. It’s about complementing the vibe.
How far in advance should I book a hairstylist for the wedding?
I recommend booking your hairstylist at least 3 to 6 months in advance, especially if the wedding is during peak season. This gives you time for a trial run and ensures you get the stylist you want for this important day.
Choosing Your Perfect Wedding Day Hairstyle
Ultimately, the best mother of the groom hairstyle is the one that makes you feel absolutely beautiful and confident. You’ve seen some lovely options, from elegant updos to soft waves and chic bobs. Take your time, consider the wedding’s style and your own personal taste. The most important thing is that you feel comfortable, radiant, and ready to celebrate this joyous occasion. You’ve got this!
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